Vicarious performance

vicarious [vaɪ'kɛrɪəs]

adj. （想像别人苦乐情况）间接体验的;替代别人的;代理的;受委托的;

vicar代理人+ious...的→替代的；代理的；发同感的

performance [pɚ'fɔrməns]

n. 表演;演技;表现;执行;

per完全+form形状+ance表名词→ perform从头到尾做出形状=表演+ance表名词 → 表演

It doesn't mean you have to be a doctor.

这并不意味着你一定要当医生。

Oh, thank you.

噢，谢谢了。

Being a good listener means much more than just listening with ears. Eyes mean that I should look at you while you are speaking as a sign of respect. In other words I should not watch TV, or look over your shoulder at other people while we are talking

作一名好的倾听者，决不只是“用耳朵听”。“目”字的意思是，你说话时我应当看着你，这是尊重对方的表现。换句话说，当我们在一起谈话时，我不应当看电视，也不应当越过你的肩膀瞅着别人。